Rick Dutch

Hey there, whats up! I want to let you in something that i experienced this week and this could amplify the attraction that your target feels towards you MASSIVELY!

Ok so, i was reading Mystery’s latest book: “The Pickup Artist” which is a good book to read as it contains a couple of personal story’s etc. yeah but anyways…and he wrote something about “Creating a jealousy plotline” with your target. Now when i read it at i was like…”Oooohhhkaaaayyy” as it didnt realy get to me at 1st. Then he explained what happend with him and how he uses jealousy in his game these days and what he says is something about “him dating this girl, and the girl made him feel jealousy for some reason and by doing something,  i cant recall right now, it made HIM want HER way more because of the feeling of “jealousy”.

Now, let me tell you, i am the least jealous guy i know…so i was like “Mystery…YOU?!…JEALOUS?! NOOOOO”. But ok, even Mystery is a human beeing so…he’s jealous, so what!

Now let me tell you…the night after i read this “Jealousy Plotline Thing” i went out with “a regular” of mine, a very cute thing, sensual, sweet, gorgeous penetrating brown eyes which exhude sexuality, an alive spark in her eyes…long legs…dark brown hair…tight, yet peachlike skin…nymphomaniac…loves to take it in her mouth and loves it long and deep…

*snaps out of his day dream* Yeah!…so anyways…

Now, she knows exactly who i am, what i do and why i do it and the other way around aswel, we made “a deal” of how we are going to take care of things…and eachother…and we are open and honoust about it. We enjoy eachother company very much and love to hang out and do stuff when ever we can but don’t stress it if the other has something else to do, very cool!

Now, we were going to watch a movie together in a cinema nearby and were chilling it a bit in a cafe having a drink and talking a bit, about naughty things…yeah…you know me…and suddenly she strated talking about this guy she met and how she went on a date with him etc. now i know she dated other guys and it realy doesn’t bother me but this time, i just felt something was different. I saw her body language change and her facial expression got realy “serious” so i just knew something “was going on”.

I asked her “Do you like him?”, she looked down to the table and said “yes”. I asked her “would you like to see him more?”, her eyes turned away from mine and she said “yes”. I took another sip from my Vodka Lime, which is my standard drink by the way i LOVE a good Vodka Lime…but anyways, i looked at her…and i felt something happening inside…it was something i havent felt in a LOOONG TIME…and it kinda cought me off guard! (remember this as i will explain what i felt afterwards) So i looked at her and i asked her “are things getting more serious between you guys?”

She knodded her head just a little bit and again, she said “yes”, she didnt say anything more…but yes…i could feel her getting uncomfortable with me asking about him, i guess because she isnt used to actually having a relation ship the way we have and seeing anoter guy on the side.

I sayd the only thing i could say to her at that time…“Well, fuck his brains out! You love sex right!” haha, nah, im joking…i didnt realy say that! (or did i?)

What i said was “Look, i think you should do what feels right for you, you know i will always back you up!”

And i ment that! I realy and stronly believe that if you love…or even like a person…you would want THEM to be happy and you won’t stand in their way in pursuit of happyness!

I felt the tention in the air and quickely and intelligently pushed the conversation into another direction, we went to see the movie, which was AWESOME by the way “The Book of Eli” (Mad Max kind of style, go see it!) Afterwards we “danced the Salsa, the Rumba, the Cha Cha Cha AND…the Lambada” if you know what i mean and we had a realy great evening together.

Now let me tell you what i felt during those few moments we were talking about “the other guy”.

I felt “Jealousy”.

Now seriously, the thought of her beeing with some other dude, gave me a feeling of “jealousy”. And you know what i INSTANTLY thought!!!

“oh…GOD…i WANT HER!!! BAD!!!”

It just made her so much more appealing to me, it made her sexualy even more attractive, it made me want to grab her right there and then in the bar…(i actually told her that by the way, at the time that i felt it…she giggled and went SHHHH!)

But anyways, right there and then i felt jealousy, i felt what it did to me and what i wanted to do right away…then i thought…Mystery…you S.O.A.B. (thats supposed to spell – son of a bitch). I now know EXACTLY what he ment with that what he said…cause i FELT it myself! And it was such a powerfull feeling and it had impact right away! It mader her So – Much – More – Attractive. I wanted to make her MINE…i felt the need to…like…act and do something…wow…the experience was an amazing lesson!

It made me think about something i witnessed 1 week earlier when i was sitting down in a club with a couple friends of mine, we were talking to these 2 ladies and i noticed 1 of them was realy into me, she exhuded “I WANT YOU RICK DUTCH” it was written all over her sexual body…god she had a sexual body…

Anyways, in that club, im a regular there, i am also “talking a lot” with 1 of the “Go go Dancing ladies” there, and so she came over and sit right on the other side of me, the left side, and we started talking. She started to touch me, gave me a back rubb as i told her about my back shit etc. and when she started doing that, i noticed the lady on my right checking me out, and out, and out, and out, and then some…and more…it was TO obvious that she might have felt…loss…maybe a bit intimidated by another woman of beauty…left out…JEALOUSYYYY!!!

So when my little dancing queen left, the other girl on my right started touching me RIGHT AWAY, trying to get my attention again etc. she was realy working for it, ive never noticed something like that happening so “hardcore” as it did right there and then.

So to make an end to this story, it led me to the following conclusion:

Jealousy, is a very powerfull “tool” anyone can use to their advantage, it works both ways, it works perfectly and…well…it works! Go and mingle with as many people as possible, create a large group of hot looking friends, maybe train a couple pivots and make them come over and steam shit up when your in set, it will make your target want you…BADLY!

Go…go do it! NOW!!!

Good Luck,

Rick Dutch.

Yeah, sometimes i get into a funny mood…and do silly things…

Ok, so i received this amazing question from a guy “J.T.”, who was wondering how I deal with things like “What if you open a girl, and she doesn’t respond, and acts as if your not there” or “what if you get amogged – what if you get fucked with by the Alfa male of the group”

Well, here are several answers that came to mind after thinking about what made me hold a positive mindset.

I started working on strengthening my Innergame over time by taking actions that “put me out there”

Now what do i mean with that…well, like for an example – 1st, I have been Muay Thai boxing for a serious amount of time now, not to brag about it but i have had enough time to spar – or play fight if you like to call it that way, with guys, smaller than me…but also BIGGER as me, like the tipical gorilla type of guys, big, muscular, no neck, realy strong…the tipical Silver Back, you know the type!

Now what has this got to do with getting amogged, well, lets just say, that i now KNOW, deep in my core, that yes, if shit hits the fan and the guy would like to hit me for an example..i will probably fly across the room as i am not a big guy at all, im a leight wheight, 73 kilo’s. However, he would have to hit me 1st…an i am not the guy that would let that happen just like that. I know, through 1st hand EXPERIENCE, that i am faster than him…and i KNOW…trough 1st hand experience…that i WILL be able to knock him out.

Not that i am going to do this…im the last one to start a bar brawl, i hate fights, im very friendly…but i AM confident about my strenghts and my capabilities. So even in the presence of a BIGGER guy than me, my whole fysiology will still exhude…that relaxing and confident energy…i am not easely intimidated by bigger guys, or by guys that seem or act as an ALFA.

2nd – I went out…ALONE…a LOT of times…now this too, creates balls as there will be nobody backing you up, nobody to wing you, nobody to talk to if your NOT in set and, more importantly…nobody to push your state up when it goes down…

It all depends on YOU!

When going out, i HAD to go in and talk to people in order to not look as that stupid weird guy standing alone with his drink in the corner. So while crashing and burning, i developped a mental strength that kept me going for several hours having fun beeing alone…but meeting other people!

And let me tell you, that now, i can go to bars, pubs, clubs, whatever y myself…and just meet up with people i already know…so im never alone in there anyways…it took me some time to build to that point, but i did it! And that strenthens your innergame aswell.

Now 3rdly – I created a “positive mental attitude” which is a realy important thing to have!!! (SO important its not even funny)

Like, when some one around me, for an example, interperts something as “beeing shitty” or “negative” and go’s “Ah, fuck, this and that happend and it sucks so hard!” and get into this negative mindset, i ask them “well, what POSITIVE thing have you learnt from it?” then at 1st they still go all negative and go “yeah well, that this and that sucks ofcourse!” but i wont buy that…so i ask them again “what POSITIVE THING…have you learnt from it” and then they come up with one or 2 anwsers and i tell them “see…so it has been an amazing thing that just happend, you learnt something valuable that will make you better prepared for something alike in the future…you gained strenght…your smarter now!” and right away you will see the expressions in their face change from something that might come of as “stressed out” at 1st to something that looks “at ease” in the end.

Or something i ALWAYS tell people, i almost PREACH it is when they encounter a “problem” and talk about that they have “this and that problem” i refrase the thing for them by saying “well, try to look at it as A CHALLENGE”

Almost instantly, you will see them look as if they are thinking about what the hell your talking about! Then, and it seriously works like magic, they get this relaxed look on their face and go “damn…when i look at it that way…i feel the need to go and resolve it right away as it feels so much more positive!”

And that is also what i do myself, i try to learn from everything that happens, try to take the most positive things from realy negative SHIT that goes on…also in my life right now as im writing this (everybody has stuff going on…i am not an exeption). I dont have ANY problems, i have “Challenges” and a challenge is something i WILL overcome, one way or the other! It drives me to seek out oppportunities, to look for ways to make things possible, to see “doors opening” instead of “doors closing” and i dont have a solution…i will shove my foot in the door before it shuts…as i am sure that something will come to mind before it closes.

Where people come up with reasons why NOT to do something…i come up with ways and reasons why i SHOULD do it! “When you can’t…you must…when you must…YOU CAN!”

To give you an example:

“Hey…i cant do this or that because i dont have money…i really want to but yeah…the money…” is just another way of saying “Yeah, my brain is conditioned in a way that it keeps me from doing literally anything as it comes up with reasons why NOT to do something” While I myself would find a way to get that amount of money to do that what i want to do! NO EXEPTIONS! (and i dont mean i will go out stealing or doing something that doensnt allign with my values)

Anthony Robbins said this ones, to me personally…in 1 of his audio programs “People are not lazy, they simply have impotent goals”

Well personaly…i have rock hard and rock solid BONERS of goals!!! And they are so AMAZING that i NEED to live a life filled with “positivity, courage, challenge overcomming solutions, a positive mindset…A STRONG INNERGAME” My goals depend on them…my visions…Sienna, my daughter…MY LIFE!!!

So, now, to come to real answer your question…i don’t ever get amogged…because i dont give anybody the opportunity to push me around. My appearance has this “I AM NOT EASELY INTIMIDATED” energy. I am confident, i feel GREAT, i LOVE my life, i am used to overcomming challenges, i am a PASSIONATE MAN and i shall not be touched by other peoples negative energy!

Shittests…i dont get them…they don’t exist in my reality, if a woman behaves a certain way…it doesn’t realy affect me, at all! As i have been trough so much already that whatever a woman can throw at me doesn’t affect me anymore.

If anyone can give me a good enough reason let me and my state get manhandled by anothers person’s crap and let it fuck with my amazing feeling…i will actually considder it, but in the last 5 years…people have tried…and failed…with comming up with something good! Because there is “NO REASON WHY YOU SHOULD FEEL “NEGATIVE” BECAUSE OF AN AMOG OR A SHIT TEST”

So, this is how i deal with it “in a nutshell” an i hope you can relate to some things and take your learning points from them and use them to your benefits.

J.T. Thank you for your question, i hope this answer provides you with that what you are looking for.

Good luck creating a strong innergame yourself, and if you have any questions, feel free to contact me ok!

Rick Dutch!

Ok, so i just had to share this with you!

Tom Arnold and Chris Farley will show you guys how to pick up chicks, the RIGHT way!!! Sit back and Enjoy!

Hey you, how are you doing? Im doing FANTASTIC! Im overcomming my challenge’s every day and im loving life more and more every day!  So what about that HUH!

Anyways, i just wanted to let you know that i am going to experiment a little bit with this website as there are going to be a couple of changes in the comming months as i am working on a LOT of amazing things!!!

So, 1st of all , i am going to make a bit of space available on this website. This means that the section “Funny Video’s” is going to slowely dissapear. What i will do is, im going to re-post the video’s on the main page, so they wont dissapear, its just, that you will have to look in the “Video’s Category” to find them. That way i will have 1 page free to use for better and higher purposes as it is beeing used for right now.

I am also going to take down 1 or 2 other pages so i can use them for the greater good…but how thats going to happen…im not realy sure yet…1 step at a time my friend!

Greets,

Rick Dutch

Ok so, i receive a lot of questions from people who, appearently get stuck in “the friendzone” after going out on a date or after talking with a girl and have no clue what went wrong and what to do next time. So i am going to keep this simple, short and easy to understand!

 When you go out on a date, or if you are trying to pick up a girl (or guy) you have to, at some point, build up to the point where you can make a “statement of interrest” which means that you “make some kind of statement, verbaly or non verbaly which shows that you are interested in a little more than just a “friendly conversation”. How else is that other person going to know what you have on your mind?!

So, Lets say you’r talking to a person that you “like”. At some point your going to have to “Kino escalate” which means “touch the other person” so the other person can get used to the fact that your a “fysical” person. We all do this naturaly with people who are close to us. So 1st you give them a small tap on the shoulder, punishing them for something they said, then you grab their hand to pull them closer to secretly whisper something in their ear for an exsample, then you parade them around the bar looking for new adventures while holding their hand on your arm. All of these things will ensure that the other person gets familiar with you touching them, which is IMPORTANT if you would like to kiss them later on, as it makes things just a bit more comfortable AND it creates a certain “tention” because, if a nice looking person touches you…what does it do with your fysiology? I mean…doesn’t it feel realy nice and warm to have a certain fysical “connection”, the warmth, the approval…it creates a certain chemistry and it feels GREAT!

After growing a little closer to “your target” you would like to let them know what you have got on your naughty mind So you make a certain Statement of Interest. The way i do this is by using something they say and joke about it in a way which stirs the conversation towards something “sexual” or something about “kissing”. Or even something less obvious by words but backed up by a certain look in my eyes like they would say something and i would respond by saying, in a sexy voice and with this sexy james bond look on my face “ohhh…realllyyy”. Now, the words dont mean anything on their own, but backed up by my fysiological appearence…it IS a HUGE statement of interest.

Also, what i do is, while talking, saying something like “i cant realy hear you” then grab her hand, soft but firmly, pull her body against mine and lay her hand on my shoulder and just give her this deep and penetrating look in her eyes…which says it all!

These are simple ways in which i personaly state my interest to a woman and i suggest you play a bit with this to ensure that you don’t end up as “just a friend” and get a larger amount of serious “closes”.

So, again, the basic outline:

• Start talking
• Go Kino
• Make statement of Interest
• CLOSE!

This basically is all you need to know to NOT become friends…we could go deeper into the rabbit hole but I hope this short description of how i deal with it will help you out just as much!

Good luck in getting fysical!

Rick Dutch

So here it is, Prague 2010 part 2!  As Knut and I roamed across the lands of Eastern Europe on a search to find that perfect 10 we found it hard work to “hook” our possible 10’s as “both” sides found it hard to communicate with eachother. However…we did find a couple maidens on our quest…see here what happend…when we engaged into the rough battle of…approaching and starting a conversation:

So that was Prague part 2…but no need to worrie my friend…as Part 3 is on its way!

Greets! And Happy Sarging!

Rick Dutch.

I would like to talk to you about beeing “Sexual” and “Sensual”. Men have this idea that “beeing sexy” is something that is only “for women”. Well, i am now telling you that, THAT is complete BULLSHIT!

I was in Australia, to do a tour as a DJ for a month in 2007 and I stayed at the place of 2 of my Ozzie Brothers in Sydney. They had a couple of DVD’s lying around there and one of them was “Rush Hour 2″. Now what does that have to do with men beeing sexy you might as yourself…well…one of the main characters is “Chris Tucker” (The black guy with the biggest mouth of the west). IN that movie, and probably in real life too, he lives in this reality where HE is “Gods gift to women”. He seriously believes that he is the most sexy thing on this planet and he takes every opportunity to express himself in that way. Now the thing that i want to point out is the following scene, if you have seen the movie you’ll know exactly what im talking about.

Its the scene where “Chris” or “James Carter from the LAPD” as his character is named, walks into this “Heaven on Earth Massage Salon”, where he is going to get a massage and a hot tea bath! and walks straight up to the lady behind the counter, looks at her in his most sexy look and then in his sexy voice says something…“Lay ho ma girl!” he tries to grab her hand but she pulls her hand away and he says “yeah…”, then he looks her up and down…again in that sexy way only he can do…(check out the video if you like: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WSEQRnF59Q8&feature=related on 1.00 minutes they walk in and you’ll see what i mean.

Anyways, my friends and i laughed so hard about that scene and after watching the movie for about a…1000 times…we started acting like “James Carter” and talking like him to people all over, just to have a laugh. Howeverrrrr…i noticed one important thing as i started talking all james Carter Sexy to girls…they responded to it…without slapping me in the face! They smiled, talked back to me in a sexy way, gave me the same looks up and down and all that!!!

So i started working with my new “knoweledge” and noticed that women respond to men that give them a “certain look”. What i noticed was that by “thinking of a certain thing” my fysiology responded and my body language and facial expressions exhuded this “sexy vibe” around me and towards the women i made eye contact with!

What i have learnt from that was that i could think about something “sexy” and make eye contact with a lady and she will subconciously KNOW and FEEL what I have on my mind! It worked like a charm i can tell you, since i applie my “new” knoweledge i get a shitload of IOI’s and “invitations” just by “LOOKING” at them!

I wanted to share this with you and suggest you try this!

And i learnt this from Detective James Carter from the LAPD…who would have thought that big mouth would ever come in handy hey J

Good luck,

Rick Dutch

Hey there, i would like to invite you on a trip that i am going to take this year. I have decided to go and travel all around europe troughout the year to find “The perfect 10″.

When you ask men “where do the most beautifull women in the world live?” you will hear a wide arrange of countries and city’s and i am going to travel to ALL those countries and ALL those city’s to try and find out if its true what they are saying…since i like to find out for myself…AND, more importantly…i would like to find that woman…the one with the “Victoria’s Secret Look”, one who is highly intelligent so i can have amazing conversations with her, she must be passionate about life and value giving, she must have her own thing going on and…very important…she must have the sexual “open minded” and have the skills of, lets say, Jenna Jameson & Nina Hartley combined!

I am going to film the trips i take and everything i shoot…i will upload for you to watch. So this will consist of totally un cut and real infield stuff. You will get to find out with me, where those beautifull women realy are…so you can go over there yourself and grab a couple to bring home with you…and enjoy!

So what you will get to see are my approaches, my dorky moments, my successes and yes…also my “failures” aka “learning moments”

(i don’t believe in failures, every thing that happens is a learning moment, if you look at it that way, youll start loving and embracing your failures! Remember that!)

So, my 1st trip took me to the Czech Rebuplic, to Prague, which is one of the major city’s there i think. I never did any research about the city, basically what i did was when we decided to go and travel was come up with “Prague”, since i heard there are a lot of beautifull women there.

I booked flight tickets, booked a Hotel and flew my ass over there to meet up with my friend from Norway, Knut from www.mojolifestyle.com.

So, accompany me, Rick Dutch (and friends) on my trip around Europe, to the places, where supposedly, the most beautifull women in the world are living…if they are there…i WILL find them…and i WILL find…MY perfect 10!

Here it is, the 1st Episode…

Hey, whats up! Living life large and exploring your opportunities to come across a couple of memorable adventourse you will be telling your grand children about??  I Hope so!  I know i am!!!

I want to give you a short update of things to come and things i have left behind here on: www.rickdutch.com

1st of all, a little while ago i wrote that i would like to help you out with your challenges, since then i have had Skype calls with people from all over the world like Brazil, Canada, Belgium, USA, Holland, Argentina, Spain, Germany,  Australia and more! I have had an amazing learning experience coaching people through the internet and i would like to thank those people for their trust. 

Currently i am NOT available for the free Skype sessions anymore as i hardly have time to do so and my training to become a certified coach requires me to have face to face conversations. This has led me to have Coaching Sessions with a wide arrange of people comming to me with all kinds of “things” they wanted help with.

Now i have succesfuly coached people with their own company’s, entrepeneurs, upcomming dutch artists, arist managers, men and women with their life’s challenges from “love to work related things”. While doing this i am growing even more passionate about all of this! Its going amazing and things are growing further and bigger… who knows what this will lead to.

Also, I am receiving more and more requests for “Infield Game Coaching” consisting of “Day and Night Game”. In the past i have denied these requests as my focus kept me on things which were more important to me personally at that time. However, my goals are leading towards the fact that i am now willing to be your infield “Coach, Instructor and Counselor” with your “Social interactions, Game challenges and Innergame improvements”.

If you are feeling that you are not progressing with any of this or if you want to accomplish even better and greater results and think that having a coach backing you up will kickstart a faster growth, feel free to contact me: rickdutchcoaching@gmail.com and we will discuss the details of your path to succes!

 Another very important and interesting thing, i am now officially on a Quest!…“My Quest, for the perfect 10″.

Starting now,  My friends and i will travel to different places, places where supposedly the most attractive women in the world are living, and i will film a lot of infield footage, Day and Night. This way YOU will be able to see if “the rumors are true”.

My quest will take me to places like “Prague in the Czeg Republic – Malmo and Stockholm in Sweden – Reykjavik in Iceland – Copenhagen in Denmark – Sofia in Bulgaria – Rio de Janeiro and Sao Paulo in Brazil – Miami in the US” just to name a few places who are well known to have insanely beautifull women.                

(If YOU have a suggestion, if you know or THINK that a certain area in the world is packed with the most gorgeous women out there, feel free to enlighten me and maybe i will travel to the place that you suggest, i will film and put it online to share it with the world!)

I will upload the film material as raw as possible so you will be able to see me game, you will see my successes and my failures. You will see my sticking points and my realisations! The footage i put up is not supposed to “look cool” or to look as if has been shot by a proffessional. I want to keep it as “real” as possible so you will have some what of an idea of what i am going through while traveling with my friends meeting people all over and checking out what the women are like. So, keep a close look on here as the 1st part of “My Quest for the perfect 10″ will be on here very soon.

Ok, so thats it for now, i look forward to see you soon my friend!

Cheers,

Rick Dutch.