Rick Dutch

Hey! Today I want to give you my thoughts about what people in the seduction community call a “NEG”.

For the people who don’t know what I mean with a “NEG” I will give a short description of the term: A “NEG” is any kind of reaction from you to a woman’s behavior towards you, and by using the “NEG” you kinda show that you can stand your ground by calling them on anything that may have just happened or something you notice about her, like: She might have a bit of an attitude and you want to show her that you are not one of those losers that will get trampled on so you now give her a “NEG” by saying

“Hey, I ALMOST love the color of your hair, ehm…is it real tho?”

or something more fun that will create laughter but still shows you will not be messed with *this is ment as a reaction to something she says* “Oh really, Sassy Mc Sassers! what makes you so special then?”

A lot of people talk about “negging the girl hardcore” and really “giving her a mental beating” so they can come out as a person who has a higher value but as you can see “Negging” and “Being an asshole” are 2 things that lie very close to each other. I personally wouldn’t concentrate on “negging” as you might kill your set if you do it a little bit harshly and not with enough of a “wink”. People will feel uncomfortable and they will turn away from you! Which leaves you empty handed and all alone and that is not the outcome you want im sure!

Sienna, my own little Princess.

Look at it this way, and this is the mindset that i go by these days (Abdel Karisma, a good friend of mine and a personal coach, has spread my eyes wide open to this matter).

A girl gets told her entire life, starting from a very young age, that she is a princess and that she’s beautiful, first by her parents and relatives, then when she is older by men who feel attracted to her.

She see’s Britney Spears and C. Aguilera and a couple of Victoria’s Secret models on t.v. and so she get’s conditioned in a certain way. Later when she is all grown up she spends countless hours in front of the mirror making her self all beautiful and she really makes an effort of it to feel good about herself because everyone expects this from her, she expects this from herself…what do u think that this does to her “innergame”? let me tell you: She feels insecure about herself and about her looks! 90% chance she will NEVER walk out the door without any make up on…because she thinks she looks ugly without it.

So, women can be realy insecure about her looks, no matter what she acts like! We all know those Barbie dolls that act as if they are the “Belle of the Ball” and have this attitude issues that come with it. So I can do 2 things, 1, is Negging her so she feels even more discomfort or I can go for 2, anything else! because why would I want to make a person that is probably already insecure about him or herself even more insecure while instead I can make that person feel GOOD when they are around me! Now there are all kinds of things you can do to achieve that however this article is not about that, were talking about “The Neg” here J.

So I would really like you to consider that I have just said and try to ban “the NEG” out of your system or to become really good in calibrating how and when to use it because when used wrong…you can really give that person a Pimp Smack in the face! And I’m sure that this is NOT what you want to do. If you want to become more interesting and a person of higher value, use the “Push/Pull” tactic instead, it’s fun, exciting, creates interest and attraction! I will soon post a video of myself demonstrating how I use “push and pull” in field.

So stay tuned for more my friend, and keep your emails with feedback and questions coming rickdutch@gmail.com

See you soon,

Rick Dutch.