Ok, so, i wanted to give you a small update and let you in on the news that, since the 8th of June i am officially a certified “Hypnosis and Regression Practitioner”.

I am very happy to have been certified, i received my diploma yesterday and it is my 2nd certification in a short period of time as i received my Coaching Certification not to long ago.

I am allready working on new things and working towards new certifications and i will keep you updated about them.

Have an amazing day my friend!

-X-

Rick Dutch.

Yes, here they are again, the Cheesy Pickup Lines! Ive had several emails of people actualy using the stupidest ones…and they loved it! GOOD FOR YOU GUYS!  Much respect your way, test this stuff out just for fun sake!

25. So there you are! I’ve been looking all over for you.
26. I’ve been trying to meet a person like you for hours.
27. I’m fighting the urge to make you the happiest woman on earth tonight.
28. Hey, I need your help! My mother says if I don’t get a date this weekend,
she’s putting me up for adoption.
29. Are you free tonight or will it cost me?
30. Excuse me but I’m doing a report on stamina. Would you be interested in
finding the true meaning of marathon?
31. Of all my relationships, I like sexual the best.
32. Darling, you haven’t changed a bit since our divorce.
33. Fine! And you?
34. This is your lucky day, because I just happen to be single.
35. You’re the most beautiful woman I’ve ever met…today.
36. You know you might be asked to leave, you make the other women look bad.
37. Just where do those legs end?
38. What lovely eyes you have, are they yours or did you buy them?
39. You know, my mother says you have the best posture of anyone I know.
40. The best of me is behind me.
41. The girl I’m with, oh, she’s my sister.
42. Would you like someone to mix with your drink?
43. Would you come back to my place and pet my dog?
44. Can I be your slave for tonight?
45. Be different, say yes.
46. I’m in advertising. Would you like to be in our next photo shoot?
47. We voted you “The most Beautiful Girl Here” and the grand prize is me.
48. Picture this, you, me, bubble baths, and hot fudge sundaes.
49. Do you believe in the hereafter? Well, then I guess you know what I’m here
after.
50. Motel spelled backward is letom.

Have fun with them!

Rick Dutch

I once heard “Zan Perrion” say something along these lines “Live each day, as if your going to create an amazing memory” And that is exactly the way of living my life as i am always seeking and making opportunities to create amazing memories…and i have so many already

So i have this female friend, we have been seeing eachother for some time now and we are realy close when we are together and like eachother alot. Now the fun thing is that i have so many ideas of doing cool and amazing things on dates and i decided it was time to do something special with her, to make her aware of how AMAZING it is to hang out with me (i mean, seriously…i am amazing to hang out with).

I live right next to the fantastic city of Rotterdam and there are tons of cool things i can take a girl out to a date but i wanted to make a bit more of an effort out of it, to strengthen our connection even more and “to create an amazing memory with her” and i came up with the following things to do:

I picked her up in the morning, then we drove to the center Rotterdam to a fantastic Hotel! Nothing fancy or classy but what makes it fantastic is that they decorated it in certain styles, like the 1st 2 floors has this “middle eastern style” then the 3rd floor has this “African style” and the 4th floor has an “South American” flavour to it! Then right next to it they have this Restaurant completely in the middle eastern style with foods and dishes which originate from those areas aswel, where logically we would have our dinner that night.

So we checked in, got the key to the room and wen on to the next thing i had planned…a visit to the “Sex Shop” right around the corner…yeah bwoy! We bought a couple toys…and a couple stimulating lubricants…which was a very cool thing to do as by doing that i non verbally promised her…again…a super amazing “physical get together” with this extremely sexy, half Dutch half Brazilian Prince!!!

Then i took her to the Rotterdam Zoo, which is a very big Zoo where i try to go atleast once a year. We had lunch there and had a very nice time together, walking around, experiencing all these different vibes which come with the different areas they built up there…i personaly love it!

After that we drove back to the Hotel and went to the restaurant to have ourselves a snack, we ate a little, drank some, talked for a bit…connected…

Then we went up to our room which we actually entered for the 1st time right then and we were both pleasantly surprised, it looked like something from that movie “The Prince of Persia”. Just try to imagine a room with that middle eastern look all over it, pillows on the floor, courtains draiping down around the king size bed, soft shining lamps with that “oil lamp/genie of the lamp” style, Persian carpets on the floor, it was perfect! (i spared no costs as i took one of the most expencive and biggest rooms available!)

So, we were going to take a nap before a late night dinner as we were going out later that night to a Special Club Night i always receive tickets for. So…yeah…as we went to bed we…obviously…battled wich sides we were going to sleep…i won…HA! So we played around for up to 2 hours, used our newly bought toys and lubes and had an amazing experience there, i can imagine her feeling a bit like “one of the ladies from my harem, choosen for a special night, filled with pleasure, with her Prince”.

After we took a nap, we got ourselves ready and went down for our dinner, which was seriously amazing…and then we went to the club. We arrived before the massive line formed, something i always calculate when going to a certain venue as standing in line for almost up to an hour is not one of the most fun things to do on a date. So we were inside just vefore it filled up, went to a quiet area with our drink and sat down to enjoy eachothers company.

After a while we danced and had fun together, drank some, laughed some, fooled around some…the usual Then, when we got a bit tired we went back to the hotel, went to our night time business and went to sleep…in the morning we bathed together and had an amazing breafast there…Prince of Persia Style! And i took her home and went on my business.

Now THAT…is how i do my thing guys…you wanted to have a couple ideas? Well im sure this might inspire you to go out and actualy create a long lasting amazing memorable experience for the special ppl in your life!

We grew even more close those days we spent together, and we did cool things, something she doesnt do with her other dates when she has them! Like what i did with my friend, ENSURED, that now…when she thinks of me (and she does!) she remembers the amazing experience with me and what do you think that will do to her state? It will cause her to have an amazing boost in her state when she thinks of me!

And that is something YOU can also accomplish!

And i know, ofcourse, there are thos among you “who don’t have the finanial recources” to do something like what i described here, i completely understand! However, in that case, i would like to challenge you to do a couple things:

• Come up with great, creative, memorable, options…which don’t cost you much…or nothing at all.
• Go and find ways to create a (legal) financial income!!! There are MANY ways for you to create a certain amount of income…if you think there is no way…its because your goals are probably impotent! (which basicaly means that you…are…one…lazy…street bum! lol)

Dates dont HAVE to cost a lot of money, you can do tons of amazing things like “Grabbing some old bread and go and feed ducks” or “Make paper signs which have numbers on them from 1 up to 10, then go to the city center, find yourself a place to sit down, and go rate people, holding up the signs when they pass by!” Both you guys will laugh your asses off and have a blast!!!

These are both things which hardly take any effort and they are both things that will create an amazing memory with YOU in it because sure as hell the ppl you take out on dates dont ever do this stuff with others…they get taken to a movie or a drink in a cafe by others! ( BOOORIIINNNGGG)

So be creative, take a bit of effort, and create an amazing, life lasting, incredible memory, for you AND you date!

Have fun!

Rick Dutch

Hey there! How are you doing today?! 

I know you will find this interesting so check this out.

Miss Kezia Noble, you might know her from “PUA Training”, provided this link of a recorded radio show where they intervieuw a couple who practice ”Polyamory” and  Kezia about her life as a Proffessional Dating Instructor

It might inspire your way of thinking so go and check it out, the link is right here below!

http://www.rnw.nl/english/category/tags-english/kezia-noble

I am very happy to announce that last week i got certified as a “Coach”! I have been through the 1st Education at the Coaching Academy International here in The Netherlands and i got to receive my Certificate, which makes me, Officialy, a world wide acknoweledged Certified Coach!

I am VERY happy with this certification as it took me a lot of dedication and hard work to get it but i am happy i took the effort as “Coaching” is something that is an incredible “hype” at the moment and everybody seems to want to be a “Coach” and there are NO restrictions to it, so this will surely set me appart from a lot of “Coaches” out there.

Also, a very important thing, I got A WHOLE LOT of requests for Skype Coaching Sessions from around the world, requests for “Infield 1 on 1’s” and also i launched a “test case” on a 3 month 1 on 1 program which resulted into incredible success and people are contacting me for a”"Long term” aswel! Now, after receiving more and MORE requests from people…i have decided to make myself more available to service you and your personal needs. (up untill now i couldnt take the time to do so)

As i love to work with people on a personal level, my services consist of “1 on 1’s” only at the moment. This could be a “Skype Coaching Session” a ”Day or Night Game 1 on 1″ or a “Personalised Long Term Program” which i have gotten extremely good results with!

If you are interested in finding out more about any of the services i provide or if you have any questions, feel free to take action on your urges and contact me on rickdutchcoaching@gmail.com and i will happily answer your questions and put together a package that realy suits your wants and needs!

Take care…comb your hair…

Rick Dutch.

So, did you memorize any of the cheesy lines from part 1? Did you playfully use them?  Good! And did you make the ladies laugh?

Here is a new batch for you to play around with!  Have fun!

26. I’ve been trying to meet a person like you for hours.
27. I’m fighting the urge to make you the happiest woman on earth tonight.
28. Hey, I need your help! My mother says if I don’t get a date this weekend,
she’s putting me up for adoption.
29. Are you free tonight or will it cost me?
30. Excuse me but I’m doing a report on stamina. Would you be interested in
finding the true meaning of marathon?
31. Of all my relationships, I like sexual the best.
32. Darling, you haven’t changed a bit since our divorce.
33. Fine! And you?
34. This is your lucky day, because I just happen to be single.
35. You’re the most beautiful woman I’ve ever met…today.
36. You know you might be asked to leave, you make the other women look bad.
37. Just where do those legs end?
38. What lovely eyes you have, are they yours or did you buy them?
39. You know, my mother says you have the best posture of anyone I know.
40. The best of me is behind me.
41. The girl I’m with, oh, she’s my sister.
42. Would you like someone to mix with your drink?
43. Would you come back to my place and pet my dog?
44. Can I be your slave for tonight?
45. Be different, say yes.
46. I’m in advertising. Would you like to be in our next photo shoot?
47. We voted you “The most Beautiful Girl Here” and the grand prize is me.
48. Picture this, you, me, bubble baths, and hot fudge sundaes.
49. Do you believe in the hereafter? Well, then I guess you know what I’m here
after.
50. Motel spelled backward is letom.

Now GO OUT THERE! And make some ladies smile!

Rick Dutch

Now i would like to share with you, something i have been playing with for a long time and which helps me to reduce the tension i used to have when approaching a hot looking lady. As we are hardwired to look for possible sexual mates we, men, tend to “scan” a girl up and down real quickely to find out if she has all the sexual indicators, to fire up a certain feeling to make us want to go over and “talk” to her…with the intention of having sex in the end. Now i have noticed in the past, and this is nothing out of the ordinary, that every time i saw a girl that is sexually attractive to me, i allready start to have this tension, then, i decided i would like to talk to her…and the tension built up a little bit more…and more when thinking things like “damn…shes FINE!” “oh wow, look at those legs!” “oh my god her eyes…she looks so naughty” “i want to make her mine!” and so…

I noticed how i was already “investing” emotionaly in a person who didn’t even knew i was alive! And the more i invested, the more “AA” i felt. So that made me think “how can i control this? How can i make this less fucked up? How can i go over there with a more secure feeling?”

It made me re think everything i did before and during an approach and i started to experiment with a new “mindset”, a mindset that gave me such good results that i can now disregard the “3 second rule” and look at a lady the whole night, knowing what i want from her…*snap out of it* and go over and talk to her with a pretty relaxed feeling!

What i found out was the following:

-When i am in a restaurant for an example and i want to order dinner, i can call the waitress and discuss several meals with her, order my drinks, have a laugh and not feel anything.

-When i am in a clothing store, i can talk about clothes, fashion, whatever, with a hot girl who works there or who happens to stand around, and not feel anything.

-When i need to find the way to some place, i can ask any hot girl, and not feel anything.

-When i, actually need an “opinion” (without actively using an opinion opener) i can ask the hottest girl around, and not feel anything!!!

The reason why, is because i don’t NEED anything from her! At the moment i am asking for a sincere opnion, about several dishes and ordering my drinks…i have a completely different mindset than when i am actively “gaming” because then, i “might have something to loose”. And, i am not investing anything emotionaly! Im completely “blank” about her!

So what mindtricks am i currently playing with and how is this helping me?

When i see a girl walking around, in the club for an exsample, who happens to be my taste, i actually take my time to decide if she “looks” anything like i would want to hang out with…so i take well over 3 seconds, where normaly i would positively invest emotionaly in her, i now actualy scan for “defaults”. I know it may sound weird but let me tell you that this is POWERFUL!!! Just take your 1-itis, or like this hot model that you have been masturbating over for years as she is the most perfect thing ever! Lets take an exsample “Adriana Lima” now…shes HOT…but you know what…if you start looking for “imperfections” you WILL find them…and this WILL make her less attractive…just play around with this for a bit to see what it does with your preception of a girl you have always looked at as if she was the hottest thing ever!

Check this picture of Adriana Lima for an example, try to find 5 or more “imperfections” and you WILL find them (If you can’t find them, make them up!)…now FEEL…what it does to your “state”!

Also, instead of going over and thinking “i am going to open with an opinion opener but actualy i want to sleep with her asap” which raises a girls value right there and then…i condition myself to go over and actually start a conversation with her without even thinking of sex and making her something desirable!

These new ways of “acting” don’t work right away, but it does work! I conditioned myself to think differently than i have always done and let me tell you…now…i actually find women…kind of “boring” compared to before…like even the realy “hot ones”. They seem…just as normal as any other girl…and so…i hardly “feel” AA when approaching, in daytime or at night time.

When i go to do “an approach” i go over to find out if she could add any value to MY life, to see if she can qualify herself to ME…as she is just like every one else…and you know what…this improved my game incredibly! Even to the point where i now see how the realy hot ones…are approaching ME as i send out a completely different energy these days…i guess i can say it made me a more “Attractive Person”.

So i challenge you to try and play with these mindsets a bit to see how it will add value to you as a person. And feel free to let me know how it worked for you ok!

Good luck, and have fun!

Rick Dutch.

 His wife gave birth to a twin set of babies!!!

So i would like to congratulate you, PimP, and your wife, with your two little babies and i hope that this experience will enlighten your life in an amazing way!

I love you man and i will drop by soon to check out if they actualy look anything like you

Rick Dutch

Ok, so i hear this OVER AND OVER AGAIN…and again…and over again…

“Bro…she’s looking at me, i think she likes me…she’s smiling at me…i want to go over there to talk to her but…I DON’T KNOW WHAT TO SAY?!”

Well, let me tell you my friend, you are one lucky bastard!

I ran through some oldschool material i had lying around here and i found the solution to the problem you might have…beeing lost for words when you see that hotty sitting over there.

I have this HUGE list of “Lines” you could use to open a conversation, they are not the ones i would use but hey, if you have no idea what to say…might aswel use these!

These are the 1st 25 of the cheesy “pickup lines” i will put up here…and make sure to come back for more as i have HUNDREDS of them! And yes, i will out them all up here.

(And make sure you film when using these, i would love to see the reactions of your targets, lol)

1. I’m sorry for staring, but you look like someone I used to know.
2. Shall we talk or continue flirting from a distance?
3. May I have the honor and privilege of sitting next to you?
4. I won a great prize for my pick-up line. Would you like to hear it? “Hi!”
5. Excuse me, I think it’s time we met.
6. Actually, I tend to make normal conversation rather than try to dazzle
someone with a Kamikaze one-liner.
7. You’re the one I’ve been saving this seat for.
8. Where we supposed to meet for dinner?
9. What did you say? Oh, I thought you were talking to me?
10. Gosh, you’re pretty.
11. You’re very easy on the eyes.
12. Your smile is like sunshine.
13. God must have been in a very good mood the day we met.
14. You are the reason men fall in love.
15. Do you have room in you life for a new friend?
16. I just moved into the building and I was wondering if you could recommend a
good restaurant in the neighborhood. Would you like to join me?
17. You know, I’m not just an interesting person, I have a body, too.
18. There is more than what meets the eyes.
19. I’m sensing the intense feelings you have for me…is it my cologne?
20. I would say I like you, but you’d think I was trying to pull a fast one.
21. What can I do to make you mine?
22. I had a dream about you last night. Would you like to make it a reality?
23. You should be someone’s wife.
24. If he doesn’t show, I’ll be right over here.
25. So there you are! I’ve been looking all over for you.

Have fun trying them out, just for fun sake

And make sure to come back for more, i will post a batch of 25 new ones every week!  YAY!

Good Luck,

Rick Dutch.

“Your Personal Style”

Have you ever noticed, that, sometimes, you see some one, and you look them up and down realy fast like your scanning them, and then, some of those times you might feel a bit of an awkward feeling creeping up your spine, so you turn around to face the other way as you don’t want to have them in your sight anymore?

But with others…you notice that just the sight of them…gives you this, pleasant, warm, comfortable feeling?

And have you ever noticed how, sometimes, you see a person…and they actually “look” pretty good. They are good looking people…but still you don’t seem to find anything attractive in them…but you don’t know what it is? As, in other occasions, you see this “not so good looking person” walking by…only to find yourself staring at them as they have something that just…magically…attracts you? When going through any of these things…try to notice what they wear? Like, how do they present themselves? Do they look comfortable in the close they are wearing? What do they exhude?

“Hey, i am a socially awkward person since i have no idea what to wear”

or

“Hey, i might not have the features of a Playboy model or look like Brad Pitt…but im sexy as hell and succesful none the less!!!”

Like, check out “Lady Ga Ga” for an example, she might be your idea of “hot” or not, but she certainly dresses like she’s the shit! And personaly, i dont find her that good looking at all! Its just the way she dresses and is comfortable with her beeing a sexual creature which makes her appealing, it makes her hot and higher quality!

Have you ever noticed that you could easely feel more attraction towards a person who is dressed well?

Like for me personally, sometimes, i see this girl or woman walking by with a great sense of fashion, she knows what to wear, what colors suit her best, how to present herself…and it just makes her so attractive! Or when you see a “not so good looking guy” who is dressed to kill and then he just exhudes this “i am a man who’s on top of the world” vibe…and it just makes him look so much more…like a real man! Like a man who actually…GETS LAID!

Now, i know a lot of “sargers” and i have noticed that the people who exhude “quality”, ATTRACT “quality”. Now, i can talk about this for a long time trying to explain how “Social Intelligence” works but i am not going to do that…not in this post anyways…you will just have to open your eyes…and see /find out for yourself…that what i am saying is hardcore reality!

I see it all around me, the people who “dont dress like quality” (with all respect) end up with “less quality” people and let’s not go into the “different people have different tastes conversation here” cause YOU know, just like everybody else, that…YOU are attracted to “high quality” and even though, you might have a boy or girl friend who, i am sure, is realy sweet, nice and “good enough”…secretly…you ARE attracted to some one who dresses better, who exhudes more ”quality” in your reality.

I mean, i see guys out there with no sense of style, walking up to realy stylish high class women…and, seriously,i have ENORMOUS RESPECT FOR THOSE OF YOU WHO ACTUALLY DO SO…however…i see a lot of them crash and burn…over, and over, and over again…only to get laid with a girl who is not realy their girl of choice but are still doing it so they can feel a bit of self worth and “success”.

Now, if you got the feeling that you are beeing “attacked” here, i appologise as it is nothing personal! I am just trying to make you aware of the fact that, a nice haircut, nicer jeans than the ones you are wearing right now, a couple nice looking accecoires (rings, necklace, etc.) cool shirt…and all that, will make you look like a sexier person, a more succesful person, a person of higher quality!

If you want to date “10’s” then dress like a “10″!

And to point something else out aswel, i dont mean that all of you should look like “Brad Pit or a Playboy model”. If you are into the Gothic scene, dress like a world class Goth! It doesnt realy matter what it is that you like to exhude, just make it something only an amazing, successful, sexually attractive person LIKE YOU would wear!

And, please, for your own sake, don’t come up with things like “Yeah, but i dont care what others think of me hen they see me, i know im worth it” or “I am sexually attractive to all high quality suitors, because i used affirmations to make myself believe so!” because you KNOW that when you tell yourself this…your trying to come up with stupid reasons that don’t help you at all! You DO care what others think of you, were hardwired to…and so are YOU!

What do you want “them” to think when they look at you? What is it that you want to send out into the world?

Take a good look at yourself in the mirror, do you look like something YOU yourself would be sexually interested in? Seiously, ask yourself this! If the answer is not a full 100% FUCK YEAHHH!!! Than you probably would like to figure out a way to improve your style.

Some brands of jeans, very intelligently, accentuate your figure, as other, mostly cheaper ones, only purpose are to keep your leggs warm…and they don’t show your amazing looking ass! The same goes for t-shirts or blouses, tops, jackets and shoes…oh lord…shoes are SO important!!! I am talking for myself now, but i know a lot of people agree with me, a good looking person, well dressed…with “wrong shoes” is a HUGE turn off! Its kind off the same as with clothing, as anyone with nice shoes looks so much more attractive!

Take care of your warderobe man! It WILL make the difference!

Dress for Success!

Good luck!

Rick Dutch.