Rick Dutch

Hey you, how are you doing? Im doing FANTASTIC! Im overcomming my challenge’s every day and im loving life more and more every day!  So what about that HUH!

Anyways, i just wanted to let you know that i am going to experiment a little bit with this website as there are going to be a couple of changes in the comming months as i am working on a LOT of amazing things!!!

So, 1st of all , i am going to make a bit of space available on this website. This means that the section “Funny Video’s” is going to slowely dissapear. What i will do is, im going to re-post the video’s on the main page, so they wont dissapear, its just, that you will have to look in the “Video’s Category” to find them. That way i will have 1 page free to use for better and higher purposes as it is beeing used for right now.

I am also going to take down 1 or 2 other pages so i can use them for the greater good…but how thats going to happen…im not realy sure yet…1 step at a time my friend!

Greets,

Rick Dutch

Ok so, i receive a lot of questions from people who, appearently get stuck in “the friendzone” after going out on a date or after talking with a girl and have no clue what went wrong and what to do next time. So i am going to keep this simple, short and easy to understand!

 When you go out on a date, or if you are trying to pick up a girl (or guy) you have to, at some point, build up to the point where you can make a “statement of interrest” which means that you “make some kind of statement, verbaly or non verbaly which shows that you are interested in a little more than just a “friendly conversation”. How else is that other person going to know what you have on your mind?!

So, Lets say you’r talking to a person that you “like”. At some point your going to have to “Kino escalate” which means “touch the other person” so the other person can get used to the fact that your a “fysical” person. We all do this naturaly with people who are close to us. So 1st you give them a small tap on the shoulder, punishing them for something they said, then you grab their hand to pull them closer to secretly whisper something in their ear for an exsample, then you parade them around the bar looking for new adventures while holding their hand on your arm. All of these things will ensure that the other person gets familiar with you touching them, which is IMPORTANT if you would like to kiss them later on, as it makes things just a bit more comfortable AND it creates a certain “tention” because, if a nice looking person touches you…what does it do with your fysiology? I mean…doesn’t it feel realy nice and warm to have a certain fysical “connection”, the warmth, the approval…it creates a certain chemistry and it feels GREAT!

After growing a little closer to “your target” you would like to let them know what you have got on your naughty mind So you make a certain Statement of Interest. The way i do this is by using something they say and joke about it in a way which stirs the conversation towards something “sexual” or something about “kissing”. Or even something less obvious by words but backed up by a certain look in my eyes like they would say something and i would respond by saying, in a sexy voice and with this sexy james bond look on my face “ohhh…realllyyy”. Now, the words dont mean anything on their own, but backed up by my fysiological appearence…it IS a HUGE statement of interest.

Also, what i do is, while talking, saying something like “i cant realy hear you” then grab her hand, soft but firmly, pull her body against mine and lay her hand on my shoulder and just give her this deep and penetrating look in her eyes…which says it all!

These are simple ways in which i personaly state my interest to a woman and i suggest you play a bit with this to ensure that you don’t end up as “just a friend” and get a larger amount of serious “closes”.

So, again, the basic outline:

• Start talking
• Go Kino
• Make statement of Interest
• CLOSE!

This basically is all you need to know to NOT become friends…we could go deeper into the rabbit hole but I hope this short description of how i deal with it will help you out just as much!

Good luck in getting fysical!

Rick Dutch

So here it is, Prague 2010 part 2!  As Knut and I roamed across the lands of Eastern Europe on a search to find that perfect 10 we found it hard work to “hook” our possible 10’s as “both” sides found it hard to communicate with eachother. However…we did find a couple maidens on our quest…see here what happend…when we engaged into the rough battle of…approaching and starting a conversation:

So that was Prague part 2…but no need to worrie my friend…as Part 3 is on its way!

Greets! And Happy Sarging!

Rick Dutch.

I would like to talk to you about beeing “Sexual” and “Sensual”. Men have this idea that “beeing sexy” is something that is only “for women”. Well, i am now telling you that, THAT is complete BULLSHIT!

I was in Australia, to do a tour as a DJ for a month in 2007 and I stayed at the place of 2 of my Ozzie Brothers in Sydney. They had a couple of DVD’s lying around there and one of them was “Rush Hour 2″. Now what does that have to do with men beeing sexy you might as yourself…well…one of the main characters is “Chris Tucker” (The black guy with the biggest mouth of the west). IN that movie, and probably in real life too, he lives in this reality where HE is “Gods gift to women”. He seriously believes that he is the most sexy thing on this planet and he takes every opportunity to express himself in that way. Now the thing that i want to point out is the following scene, if you have seen the movie you’ll know exactly what im talking about.

Its the scene where “Chris” or “James Carter from the LAPD” as his character is named, walks into this “Heaven on Earth Massage Salon”, where he is going to get a massage and a hot tea bath! and walks straight up to the lady behind the counter, looks at her in his most sexy look and then in his sexy voice says something…“Lay ho ma girl!” he tries to grab her hand but she pulls her hand away and he says “yeah…”, then he looks her up and down…again in that sexy way only he can do…(check out the video if you like: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WSEQRnF59Q8&feature=related on 1.00 minutes they walk in and you’ll see what i mean.

Anyways, my friends and i laughed so hard about that scene and after watching the movie for about a…1000 times…we started acting like “James Carter” and talking like him to people all over, just to have a laugh. Howeverrrrr…i noticed one important thing as i started talking all james Carter Sexy to girls…they responded to it…without slapping me in the face! They smiled, talked back to me in a sexy way, gave me the same looks up and down and all that!!!

So i started working with my new “knoweledge” and noticed that women respond to men that give them a “certain look”. What i noticed was that by “thinking of a certain thing” my fysiology responded and my body language and facial expressions exhuded this “sexy vibe” around me and towards the women i made eye contact with!

What i have learnt from that was that i could think about something “sexy” and make eye contact with a lady and she will subconciously KNOW and FEEL what I have on my mind! It worked like a charm i can tell you, since i applie my “new” knoweledge i get a shitload of IOI’s and “invitations” just by “LOOKING” at them!

I wanted to share this with you and suggest you try this!

And i learnt this from Detective James Carter from the LAPD…who would have thought that big mouth would ever come in handy hey J

Good luck,

Rick Dutch

Hey there, i would like to invite you on a trip that i am going to take this year. I have decided to go and travel all around europe troughout the year to find “The perfect 10″.

When you ask men “where do the most beautifull women in the world live?” you will hear a wide arrange of countries and city’s and i am going to travel to ALL those countries and ALL those city’s to try and find out if its true what they are saying…since i like to find out for myself…AND, more importantly…i would like to find that woman…the one with the “Victoria’s Secret Look”, one who is highly intelligent so i can have amazing conversations with her, she must be passionate about life and value giving, she must have her own thing going on and…very important…she must have the sexual “open minded” and have the skills of, lets say, Jenna Jameson & Nina Hartley combined!

I am going to film the trips i take and everything i shoot…i will upload for you to watch. So this will consist of totally un cut and real infield stuff. You will get to find out with me, where those beautifull women realy are…so you can go over there yourself and grab a couple to bring home with you…and enjoy!

So what you will get to see are my approaches, my dorky moments, my successes and yes…also my “failures” aka “learning moments”

(i don’t believe in failures, every thing that happens is a learning moment, if you look at it that way, youll start loving and embracing your failures! Remember that!)

So, my 1st trip took me to the Czech Rebuplic, to Prague, which is one of the major city’s there i think. I never did any research about the city, basically what i did was when we decided to go and travel was come up with “Prague”, since i heard there are a lot of beautifull women there.

I booked flight tickets, booked a Hotel and flew my ass over there to meet up with my friend from Norway, Knut from www.mojolifestyle.com.

So, accompany me, Rick Dutch (and friends) on my trip around Europe, to the places, where supposedly, the most beautifull women in the world are living…if they are there…i WILL find them…and i WILL find…MY perfect 10!

Here it is, the 1st Episode…

Hey, whats up! Living life large and exploring your opportunities to come across a couple of memorable adventourse you will be telling your grand children about??  I Hope so!  I know i am!!!

I want to give you a short update of things to come and things i have left behind here on: www.rickdutch.com

1st of all, a little while ago i wrote that i would like to help you out with your challenges, since then i have had Skype calls with people from all over the world like Brazil, Canada, Belgium, USA, Holland, Argentina, Spain, Germany,  Australia and more! I have had an amazing learning experience coaching people through the internet and i would like to thank those people for their trust. 

Currently i am NOT available for the free Skype sessions anymore as i hardly have time to do so and my training to become a certified coach requires me to have face to face conversations. This has led me to have Coaching Sessions with a wide arrange of people comming to me with all kinds of “things” they wanted help with.

Now i have succesfuly coached people with their own company’s, entrepeneurs, upcomming dutch artists, arist managers, men and women with their life’s challenges from “love to work related things”. While doing this i am growing even more passionate about all of this! Its going amazing and things are growing further and bigger… who knows what this will lead to.

Also, I am receiving more and more requests for “Infield Game Coaching” consisting of “Day and Night Game”. In the past i have denied these requests as my focus kept me on things which were more important to me personally at that time. However, my goals are leading towards the fact that i am now willing to be your infield “Coach, Instructor and Counselor” with your “Social interactions, Game challenges and Innergame improvements”.

If you are feeling that you are not progressing with any of this or if you want to accomplish even better and greater results and think that having a coach backing you up will kickstart a faster growth, feel free to contact me: rickdutchcoaching@gmail.com and we will discuss the details of your path to succes!

 Another very important and interesting thing, i am now officially on a Quest!…“My Quest, for the perfect 10″.

Starting now,  My friends and i will travel to different places, places where supposedly the most attractive women in the world are living, and i will film a lot of infield footage, Day and Night. This way YOU will be able to see if “the rumors are true”.

My quest will take me to places like “Prague in the Czeg Republic – Malmo and Stockholm in Sweden – Reykjavik in Iceland – Copenhagen in Denmark – Sofia in Bulgaria – Rio de Janeiro and Sao Paulo in Brazil – Miami in the US” just to name a few places who are well known to have insanely beautifull women.                

(If YOU have a suggestion, if you know or THINK that a certain area in the world is packed with the most gorgeous women out there, feel free to enlighten me and maybe i will travel to the place that you suggest, i will film and put it online to share it with the world!)

I will upload the film material as raw as possible so you will be able to see me game, you will see my successes and my failures. You will see my sticking points and my realisations! The footage i put up is not supposed to “look cool” or to look as if has been shot by a proffessional. I want to keep it as “real” as possible so you will have some what of an idea of what i am going through while traveling with my friends meeting people all over and checking out what the women are like. So, keep a close look on here as the 1st part of “My Quest for the perfect 10″ will be on here very soon.

Ok, so thats it for now, i look forward to see you soon my friend!

Cheers,

Rick Dutch.

Hey you! What’s up? Today I wanted to write down this particular experience because I thought it would make a fun “field rapport”. I was going to meet up with a very special lady friend of mine to congratulate her with her birthday. She was in a local café with her friends and a couple of guys, she apparently didn’t know them, and I just decided i was going to go in and out because i wanted to go sleep early for a change.

So when I got there I saw a lot of people that I knew, colleagues and friends and I said hi all over the place. I had a genuinely good time talking to everyone and I even pulled out a magic trick J . About this time I looked around and noticed how much social proof I already had built. When I was talking to someone there were lady’s all around me and when I looked at them…well…the looks on their faces said more than enough

The actual fun started when I started talking to my special lady friend, I saw her standing alone for a moment and thought it would be time to give her a bit of my special attention, yeah baby yeah…after all I was there because of her.

We started talking and having a fun conversation, she had a couple of drinks and was quite “funny” to be around, she smiled all the time which I really liked and she had “this look” on her face…yeah I just love the looks on women’s faces when they had a couple of shots

After a couple of minutes I noticed 1 of the guys checking us out and soon after also his friends. I didn’t pay much attention to it and I just continued on talking and having great fun. The more fun we had the more the guys were looking at us…AND the more they were drinking…LOL. So at a certain time I kinda noticed what they must have been thinking…I just “stole” a girl out of their group and they could see how much fun we had together and they were frustrated by jealousy. They were drinking lots of beer, looking our way with these “looks” on their faces, obviously talking about us and then one of them stood up and walked our way. He whispered something in the ear of my “friend” and walked back to his friends, my lady friend then said to me “lol, he says that he knows exactly what you are doing and that I should watch my back with you” the only thing I could answer was “yeah, you better watch your back with me ”.

Then she told me that earlier on that night, that same guy came up to her and that she had to do some “psychological thing” with him…it was something about “a cube, a ladder, flowers” and when i listend to her saying all this it hit me, as some of you guys, who read “The Game” will also have noticed…and I continued for her “ah, and let me guess…a storm?, and where is that storm located? and what color do the flowers have? Etc. etc.”

I recognized what the guy was doing as he did the visualization test called “The Cube” on her, used to read a person’s personality. Neil Strauss wrote about it in his book “The Game” I think (correct me if I’m wrong). And since then it is something that a lot of “gamers/pua’s” are using in their routine stack to “impress” a woman…by going “hey I can read your personality”.

I told her what he did and kept in mind that the guy could be an aspiring PUA who just read “The Game”. (I gave my lady friend a copy of The Game and she started reading it so she knows what’s going on).

After a while I wanted to go home but wanted to go and have a chat with the guys who were looking my way for about 1,5 hours with an unbelievable look on their face :p (yeah and to have some self amusing fun, lol). I walked over to their table said hi to the guys and wanted to shake their hands…one guy’s jaw dropped open and gave me a look as if I was a well known superstar that just came to say hi to him but the guy who I approached 1^st didn’t want to shake my hand and he said “I don’t know you!” (with a drunk voice) I gave him that much and told him he was exactly right, “yeah you don’t know me indeed!” (and keep in mind that I did this with the biggest smile on my face!).

He: Yeah so why would I want to shake your hand?!

Me: Dude…do you have issues with yourself?

He: Mumble mumble…errrrmmm…NO! but I don’t know you so…

Me: Dude, you and your friends are looking at the girl and me for over an hour now, are you angry with yourself that YOUR not sitting there with her?

He: Errmmm, errmmm…(mumbling noises, looks of self pitty on his face)

Then I cut him off, in a dominating way!!! and said:

“Bro listen!, and you guys also! (pointing to the other guys) Next time you go out, you should put a smile on your faces, leave the beer alone and then maybe…maybe…you will have the chance to sit down with a nice looking girl for a talk instead of sitting here being frustrated with your male friends about guys who “steal away” your girls and leave you to go home all alone to play with yourselves instead of with a woman! And if you feel the need…you can always come to me for help! I smiled at them…laughed…pat the guy on the back…and left…with the lady…

You should have seen the looks on their faces! Priceless!!!

You want to know what the moral of this story is?

It is “ok” if your a bit clueless of “what to do”, we are not all naturally good in social interactions etc. I know I wasn’t! But if you are an “Average Frustrated Chump” (as the guys in my story, who have issues with themselves) there is always something you can do about it, just take action to become more attractive and to try to better yourself in any other way! However, if you are an AFC and react this way to guys that out-game you by far…you are just taking a step further backwards! I mean, Don’t hate the player that has better game, just learn from what he does and use it to improve yours!!! (Or hate the game lol).

Good luck and see you soon!

Rick Dutch.

Ps. @ the angry drunk guys of the café: My friends! If you ever read this, my invitation to help you out will always be valid, just contact me, and I will happily coach you to big successes!