Rick Dutch

This is a rather “old” video but as i receive A LOT of questions about it, i want to take you a little bit deeper into what is going on in the video. Take you a little bit more in dept on things.

So, my friend and i are walking around the city, doing some “sight seeing” and “meeting people” ofcourse and we had to go to the airport as we were flying back in little over 1 hour. I told him i was tired and that i was just going to stand at my friends “pancake stand” to eat a pancake…and do nothing!

As we are chilling out there i see this girl comming over and she’s entering a store right across the street from where we are standing. I sigh…very deeply, look at my watch and say “ok..so if she comes out…i am going to HAVE to talk to her…” I say it almost in an annoyed kind of way, because i didn’t feel like doing it anymore and i know we have to run to the airport etc. “fuck this shit!”

Then i see her comming out of the store…i take one more bite as my pancake/crepe is still fresh…warm…juicy…tasty…delicious…you get the point…and this is what happend:

Now, i have pointed out a couple things in the subtitles already however, there is more going on than what i could put down there:

As you can see what’s happening around 0.40: When i opened her i kept a safe distance, i stood in the “friendly zone”, but i take 1 step closer to get into the “intimate zone”. My eye contact is strong and my facial expression was gentle. This leads to the fact that, as you may notice, she feels a shift in her state, she positions herself in a more comfortable body posture. She now crosses her legs and is directly facing me and is genuinely interested in what i have to say.

By taking a step closer i can lower my voice just a little bit and throw my intonality down a bit, which NLP and Hypnosis practioners do as well, and this results in her getting more engaged into my world and reality. I have had my Hypnosis coach doing the same to me and when a person does that, it’s like you feel drawn towards that person and all that is happening around you just dissappears. You are litteraly SUCKED into the other person’s world.

She was very comfortable and she exuded this calm energy, she also held a firm eye contact with me which indicates a strong personality.

Now my body language isn’t perfect as i didn’t feel completely at ease since i didn’t have time to be standing there in the 1st place. I had to RUN to the airport ASAP to not miss my flight…and…even more important… MY PANCAKE WAS GETTING COLD!!!

Well, i wanted to share this video with you, please take from it what you can, as i know it’s always interesting to actually see some one “DOING IT” in field. I always learn a LOT when i watch people interacting. Luckely my friend decided to film me in this approach because it showed me a lot of things where i can improve on, so thanks buddy!

I suggest you and a friend also film yourselves doing aproaches and interacting as you will learn SO MUCH watching yourself! You don’t need a fancy camera, this video was shot with a normal photo camera. Although a camera with the option to connect a microphone will be even better as you will record your whole conversation which you can “dissect” later and hear yourself talking.

Go out and DO IT NOW!!!

Hey you! How are you experiencing this 1st part of 2010? I already have had a couple of amazing adventures, i would like to share one with you.

 (I am telling you this while blinking my eye though ok, so don’t take it TO literally!)

So yeah, last weekend there was an organized meeting of  www.dutchattraction.nl  in Rotterdam so after work I drove over there to meet up with these guys for the 1^st time. I met up with them and talked about this and that and after a drink I went off to the other side of the location, to the “dance area” as we were sitting in a sort of closed of “bar/lounge” part of the location.

I walked in there and almost immediately I received IOI’s from a girl I passed. I walked passed her an I saw her “checking me out” I gave a her a solid look back, smiled at her and passed on to see what the location was all about as it was the 1^st time I was there. I continued my round and saw “the guys” standing near the bar and went over to say hi, we were talking a bit and then I saw the same girl looking at me and this time she brought her friend with her who was very obviously checking me out as well.

I smiled at the girl and made a hand gesture towards her, forcing another IOI and basically to let her know I was aware of their presence and their “eye balling”. She smiled back at me and yelled something at me I couldn’t hear of course so I walked over to ask what they eye balling was all about.

“Hey, are you going to keep eye balling me from a distance? Don’t you have the balls to come over and say hi?! ”

She said she wasn’t eye balling me but that she heard that her friend was interested in me and she wanted to see “why, who, what” for herself. I literally grabbed her, pulled her towards me and softly told her, in her ear, “oh yeah, well that naughty look in your eyes tells me something completely different ”

She started laughing and from there she couldn’t stop touching me and her hands were all over me, even the guys noticed it as they told me afterwards what they have noticed. We started talking and our bodies were pressed together during the whole conversation creating a huge sexual tension. She told me that her friend and she were talking about me, “Would you do him?” was what they were discussing. I complimented her on her honesty and gave her 3 points for that “And if you get to 10 points you will win a nice surprise”.

She wanted to know how to get more points etc. and what the surprise was etc. and from then on she was totally working to get more points. Our conversation, filled with sexual framing and teasing was going for about 3 minutes when I pulled her against me, whispered something in her ear “you just have to wait and find out now huh…” and while withdrawing my head our cheek’s touched and I pulled her in for a kiss. We made out for a while and during a time period of, I think 15 minutes we talked more naughty stuff and increased the sexual tension between us. She was rubbing herself against me and couldn’t stop touching me and grabbing my ass…and the rest of my male equipment lol.

She told me straight up that nothing was going to happen tonight as she was there with her friends celebrating her birthday etc. I told her that her friends might be getting jealous and that she should return to them (so that I could continue myself). I told her we were going to have to continue this conversation sometime soon and we exchanged numbers and went our own way.

During the next week we called a couple times and talked on the phone for as long as 1,5 hours at a time, she is well educated and has good conversational skills. She also knows about NLP and marketing and all the tips, tricks and the Do’s and the Dont’s of Human Psychology as she studies “something” But yeah, we had a lot to talk about and created a lot of rapport during this process. I invited myself over to her place for a drink and we set a date. I went over there, she showed me her place a bit and we started talking. We had a good 2 hour conversation with a lot of KINO going on and she showed me some “Belly Dancing Moves” as she is an active “Belly Dancing…dancer” or whatever you want to cal someone like that

She showed me her tattoo, which led to where she had to pull up her t-shirt as it covered a part of her back, side and up to her left brest. It was a very feminine tattoo and OFCOURSE…I had to touch it all over to see if it was fake or not (Oh naughty me) I pulled up my shirt to show her my tattoo’s and…ofcourse…she had to touch mine One thing led to another and we started making out after all this hot belly dancing and tattoo touching action. And before I knew it we landed on her bed. We made out for some time, pulled each others clothes off and my hands went on their way.

The 1^st thing I noticed was something “un usual” in her panty’s…what the fuck is that?! I thought to myself…then she told me…”She was pierced!!!”. “This could get kinky” was what was going through my mind and Jezus Christ on a Roman Horse did it get “kinky”.

The girl scratched my back to shreds, bit my nipples in half AND ALMOST TORE THEM OFF !!! (i knew the Anti Christ would appear to me some day!)

Holy *&%# , she HURT me…I was about to go into a fist fight with her almost using my Muay Thai Boxing skills to fight the girl off if it wasn’t for the fact that I was concentrating on thrusting!!!

At times I had to restrain her hands besides her head to keep her from scratching me! She answered very smartly by leaving her hands back there…but then she started BITING my lip!!! OUCH!!! It almost seemed like a wrestling match between us, I was trying to fuck her and she was trying to do everything she could possibly think of to HURT ME!!! I almost gave her a taste of my for head when she 1^st bit me! Thankfully I am very resourceful and came up with genius and intelligent ways that even Albert Einstein wouldn’t have thought of…I stopped kissing her and we head wrestled during the whole process of “passionate love making”, yeah right, there was no love in the air that night! She was like a Nazi Camp Executioner trying to TORTURE me in all the ways she could possibly think of!!!

“I have to come, I have to come…QUICKELY before she thinks of other ways to HURT MEEEEEEE!!!”

I can honestly tell you that it’s hard to concentrate when this kind of “Punishment Beyond Death” is going on!!! But people…let me tell you…I pulled it off!!! And GAWD was I happy I did hahaha I threw myself off of her and I can still hear myself throwing out a loud “sigh”. I broke a sweat like never before and the only thing going through my head was “JEEEZZZ am I glad this painful experience is over”.

The girl has balls though, because she stated that “she never had to work as hard as this while having sex ever before!”. I didn’t answer that statement and just laughed ;)

This fun experience is one I just had to share with you as I am looking back now and laughing my ass off myself right now. It just shows that there is a surprise underneath every bed sheet you pull up!

Now go out there and create your own amazing adventure, AND lets not ever mention this again ok!

THIS NEVER HAPPEND!!!

I am just joking, she is a very intelligent girl and i think she is very cool! When i recover i will go over there again but before we do anything i think the most intelligent way of dealing with this is to talk about the things we both like before we go ad it again…instead us working completely past eachother. That way we both will have more fun than we did now i think

It was an amazing experience!

Rick Dutch