Rick Dutch

Hey there! How was your weekend? I hope it was just as superb as mine and that you have learnt amazing lessons like I have! And let me tell you about a very important thing that I have learnt this weekend.

You know when something happens to you and you KNOW you should do things different next time as you have “learnt from it” and then you let it happen again…and again…and again…because you dont implement that what you have learnt and you don’t take action on it?! I had something like that this passed weekend, let me tell you about it.

I currently work in a small restaurant, I used to be a Chef for about 15 years, stuck between the 4 walls of several kitchens but recently I also crawl out of the kitchen and serve on people, which is an amazing learning experience for me as i engage in “Social Encounters” full on for a couple hours straight! I learnt a lot from this already and I’m sure I will keep on doing so as I take learning experiences from basically anything!

So, saturday, I was at work and we were chilling a bit behind the bar as we were waiting for our guests to come in and while sitting in the corner reading a book about coaching 2 lovely (read: hot) girls walked in. My other male colleague just stared at them and I could see them smiling at him, knowing exactly what was going on, and one of them spoke up and said, with a soft sigh “yeah…so we are here because we want to have dinner” smiling when she did so. My colleague went “ UHHHHMMMM…yeah…ok…”. I guess he was hypnotized by their beauty and caught off guard We didn’t really have space for them as all the seats were spoken for but he quickly recovered and sat them down and told them we needed the table again in 1 hour which was cool with them, they were really kind!

I took it from there and presented our menu to them. We talked a little bit and, making rapport etc. and we went into “flirting mode” quickly. One of them really caught my eye as she has one of the seven beauty signs “dark hair and blue eyes”, I couldn’t keep my eyes of her and our eye contact was intense.( i LOVE THAT) I received several IOI’s from both of them and I knew I was going to stir the conversation later on into the direction where I could go for the number…BUT…there were other guests coming in as well and I had a job to do so I went on, thinking I could do it later (do you feel it coming?). When they were finished eating I asked them to come with me and take a seat at the bar, where I would continue the conversation and go for the number…at least, that was MY plan. The second they were at the bar this basket of people opened itself up and within no time I was surrounded by people asking me questions and ordering etc. etc. etc. 

The girls paid and judging their body language they waited for me to say hi, told me they had to run off to a birthday party, waved…waited a couple of split seconds at the door…my hands were full…they smiled at me…waited another couple split secondsn(can you feel the tention!) knowing it was now or never…my hands were still full and my head went “FUCK FUCK FUCK FUCK “…they said goodbye…and walked of…

I knew THERE AND THEN…I had to pull the trigger sooner…I saw they took one of our business cards before they went off so maybe…I will see them again soon…(the law of attraction, lol)

Thinking I have learnt my lesson right there and then for the day something similar happened in a bar dancing I was after work!!! Here in Holland we have a saying “A Donkey never bumps into the same rock twice” But this donkey did…(oh lord)

I was in set a couple times and making the pattented “Rick Dutch Sexual Eye Contact” all over the place then walked outside and passed this really cute thing, we made eye contact and smiled to each other. I started talking to her and we went into a real nice conversation. Shortly after I spotted those IOI’s again and I started doing KINO. She was really nice to talk to and had deep and sparkling brown eyes, those eyes you would drown in so easy and her voice just caught me as it was really tender and sweet. I stated my intentions from the start as I project my sexual energy trough eye contact and she was really into it. We talked about the fact that she was going to go out with me next time which she was really in to and then her friend came up…

I introduced myself and instantly they went into a conversation about something that was going on apparently. I saw one of my friends and didn’t want to make things awkward by “just standing there” and decided I was going to talk to my friend for a second and return shortly after to get her number…so I went…and so did they…as I saw them walk off…I saw ”the girl” looking back at me just before I saw them walk away, basically saw her head turn away as my head turned towards her…as if she was looking for a way to make contact before she left…but it was too late…I was too late…AGAIN!!!!

I saw this as an amazing learning experience and SWORE to take action next time and never let a girl walk away like that…ever…AGAIN!

Couple minutes later, when I was inside this beautiful blonde girl, stylish, nice smile, friendly face etc. walked passed me and our eyes locked! (As you might or might not have noticed, I do a lot with eye contact, lol). I don’t remember what I said to her or if I did say anything at all but the energy I got from her eye contact and her facial expressions were all the IOI’s I needed from her. I saw her walking out and I thought I should wait for her to walk back inside and initiate a conversation with her…but then the 2 learning experiences with my 2 other sets that night smacked my on the head! “NO! im not going to wait, I’m going out there!” and so I did.

I looked around and didn’t see her…”oh no…not again…” I walked almost outside of the bar’s terrace and looked around…she wasn’t there?! When I wanted to walk back in I spotted her talking to some friends and getting ready to head out. Apparently I walked right passed her. As I stood right in front of the “Wardrobe” I saw her coming over with her friends and again I engaged in one of my amazing eye contacts. I said “hi” and we started talking. I knew I had to be quick this time and get her number before any unforeseen event took her away from me!

And before I even thought of going for it…”a cock block” came into the conversation (Is this going to happen to me AGAIN?!?!). The guy that came bursting into my set knew her from school where they went like 10 years back so they had a lot of interesting things to talk about…IF the guy had any conversational skills…HA! “Now I need to take action” I thought to myself and while watching her getting more uncomfortable with the silences between her old classmate and herself I went for it.

I grabbed her arm and asked something about her jewelry (don’t be hating, it was the 1^st thing that popped into my mind! lol). I slowly moved away from her friends as I wanted to have her full attention and she kindly followed my every move. She started qualifying herself by telling she was a “dancer” and that she had nice legs, which I then had to feel for myself of course I asked her where she was from and connected with her more when she named her town and I used my knowledge to talk about a club that they have there. She was more engaged into the conversation by that and I told her we should go to 1 of the 70’s/80’s classics party’s they organize so I could dress into my old school pimp suit. She was cool with the idea and I asked her…”ok so how are we going to stay in touch?” She asked me if I had “Hyves or Facebook”. She told me to take her name and look her up there, I told her it was fine…but I wasn’t satisfied with that! I wanted to have her number so we can make our conversation more personal. I grabbed my phone and said “ok, I’m going to put it into my notes…if I can figure out how that works (as if I don’t know how to do that, oh sneaky me!) I then acted as if I had no clue where to put it and asked her “ok, so, like any normal person…don’t you have a phone number instead?” She gave me her number and I agreed on calling her the next day (Sunday night) for us to have a proper conversation and so that I could find out if she was interesting in any way.

The good thing that night was that, after 2 sets that walked out on me i learnt from the experience, decided i would never let anything happen like that again, implemented that into my system, took action in the next set and accomplished my mission!

I hear people in the same situations saying “damn, it sucked tonight, i didn’t do anything! i didn’t approach! i let the set walk out on me” and if you recognise this with your self…maybe look at it in a different way, like me for an example…”what have i learnt today from the mistakes i made”

I have learnt that i should pull the trigger faster before “something happens” that makes me loose the set! So instead of beating myself over the fact i lost 2 sets, i pat myself on the shoulder for owning the other set!

SO I HAD A HUGE SUCCESSFULL EVENING!!! 

So, hopefully you have learnt something as well by reading this: Look at what you have learnt and turn everything into a success and…TAKE ACTION…NOW!!!

Rick Dutch.

Hey, it has been a while since i wrote something here, i actualy got told by 1 of my GF’s i am taking to long (Thanx sweety). But let me tell you, it’s not because im not doing anything, it actualy is because im so busy with all of this!!! I am going out and training myself a lot, reading and writing like a madman and all that. I do have something cool i want to share with you, it’s my 1st lay report on this BLOG. I suggest you read it very carefully and place yourself in my shoes…it will be an amazing ride   have fun!

I went to this “bar dancing” with a guy a just met for a “sarge”, it was the 1^st time we met so we sat down and had a drink and just got to know eachother a bit. He told me what he was working on and I explained how I deal with things. We walked in and I immediately started looking around making eye contact with the women there and started “pre – opening” all kinds of people. I received this “sensual look” from this girl and when I walked passed her I looked her deep in her eyes and said “hi”. I walked on and did a couple of similar things, there were a couple of real cute girls there.

Later on my new friend asked me “I don’t see you opening people and starting conversations, how come?” I explained the “pre opening” concept to him and the concept of “instant sexual attraction”. I do a lot with my eyes and trust my “gut feeling” when I receive an intense and sensual look back from a lady because then I know it’s on, i go over to her and I run my game, it’s just something I am testing and perfecting for myself at the moment.

Right after I explained to him that I was actually doing a whole lot, without him noticing it, we went outside for some fresh air. We were standing there and the girl I said hi to when I went in walked passed us…and our eyes locked. She stopped walking, gave me the hottest look ever and softly smiled at me. She was with a male colleague of her (found this out later on) and they wanted to walk on but I grabbed her arm and asked her “where do you think your going?”. We started talking and from the start I created a huge sexual tension between us. She was touching me a lot, giving KINO a whole new meaning and I could see her male colleague was jealous as hell. His body language was so uncomfortable and could read his facial expressions, which was really difficult as the poor guy had his face burnt beyond anything I have ever seen personally. Big props for that guy to go out and have fun in a public place like the one we were at, as I know people were looking at him a lot etc. it must have made him uncomfortable but still he was there and having fun! (the guy was setting a great example).

He was all over the girl and tried his best to hold her, touch her, say things like “you are going home with me tonight” etc. Little did he know…I had other plans We talked a bit and flirted a lot as my new friend tried to keep “the colleague” occupied. (thanx for that bro) After a while I walked inside and not long after she came In as well, I felt her walking by as she took KINO to a whole new level and i felt her hand on my back and ass. ;)

I decided I wanted to have her for a little private time, I walked over to her, grabbed her hand and told her to come outside with me (dominance) so we could talk a little bit (uh huh…) We sat down next to each other, talked about things and I found out she was a Police Officer. The KINO escalation kicked in hardcore, basically I talked with her with an amazing sexual look in my eyes and I noticed she got turned on by this incredibly! I noticed that she started to breathe heavily, her pupils were dilated and she couldn’t stop touching me. She came closer and closer to me and I was just waiting for her to “go out of control”…and she did, she spontaneously kissed me and the act shocked herself, she pulled back and apologized to me as I just kept staring at her with this intense look on my face. She started talking again…I put my finger on her lips, told her she talked to much, pulled her towards me and started kissing her. She was actually really good at it, she has nice soft lips like me.

We exchanged numbers and right after I could see her colleague watching us, and he wasn’t enjoying himself lol. They left after a couple of minutes and I told her I was going to call her for a date. I always tell them I’m going to call them and when I’m going to do so, this way they have something to look forward to and another fun thing I do is when putting my name in their phone (I take their phones and put my name in myself most of the time) I put in something like “Mr. Amazing, Sexy Bald Guy, Mr. Soft Lips” anything that we discussed and that I joked about. This way when their phone rings and they see the “unusual name” in their display, they get a huge smile on their face because it’s something different then a regular name.

1^st I texted her saying “cancel your plans for tomorrow night, I’m in your neighborhood then”. Then I got back that she actually did so. I got myself a bottle of Pink Wine and drove over to her town. I did so because I wanted to go to her place, there she would be more comfortable and I could seduce her there in a place that is known to her and that has a bed nearby. We talked for a long time about this and that, drank the wine and I started KINO escalating. She turned on a movie and turned down the lights, I crawled up against her and after 2 seconds we were kissing again. I told her to stop doing so because I was “a hungry lion ready to bite her” and I did…softly, in her neck, her face, her arms, just raising sexual tension. It didn’t take long and she jumped on my lap and started grinding on me. After a while I pushed her away and the whole game started over again. She asked me “what is it that you want from me?” I asked her…”is that a trick question!” and she told me that tonight “nothing was going to happen. (yeah right, not with The Dutch at your place baby, lol).

After a while she was rubbing with her hand on my abs and I pushed her hand down into my pants! She started stroking me etc and I started doing the same to her. I told her to lie down on her sofa and sat right next to her, opened my pants for her as I thought she was taking way to long. We messed around for a while and then she told me “there are 2 things we can do…either stop…or go to the bed room” I grabbed her, pulled Little Dutch out and in reaction she undressed herself. And damn the girl had amazing boobs. The energy was amazingly sexual and i could feel it was going to be an amazing night for the both of us.

We went to her bedroom and I ran my sexual skills on her, made her cum a couple of times and now comes the best thing, for her. As I’m really working on sexual skills I ran my sexperience on her and made her squirt 9 times! Her bed was 1 wet pool of female cum, she didn’t know what happened to her and was amazed by the experience. Her body was trembling all over and I sexed her up some more. After we were done, she told me she was so happy that she had sex with me and said “jeez, you really know what you are doing” which kinda stroked my ego She couldn’t stop smiling and going “wow! OMG my bed!!! Oh I loved this! what did you do to me?!…wow!”

I went off and received a text message when driving home telling me how much she liked the evening. I ran through the whole “pickup” and could see how she really liked the entire thing. We had a cool and sexually tensed night in the bar, at her place we had an amazing conversation topped off with amazing sex…what else could a woman want, an incredible sexperience with a cool guy like me…nothing I’ll tell you

Through the whole pickup I displayed things like “dominance, instant sexual tension, conversational skills and amazing sexual skills” I ran through several “story telling techniques” where I conveyed “being a High value guy” being “sexually active and open”, that “I won’t get weird after sex” and that “I’m not looking for a GF/steady relationship”. I set a huge sexual frame from the start and she was into all of this as she agreed on everything basically. I made her night and I’m sure I will meet her again as I took some time to build comfort with her as well.

Why did I post this Lay Rapport? Usually I’m not really a fan of writing these but as I thought about the whole process I noticed that I actually used a lot of the things I wrote about in earlier posts so now you know that I not only talk the talk but also walk the walk! Read my previous posts about “living an attractive lifestyle and the power of eye contact and facial expressions” for an example, I didn’t use any weird canned material, I used everything that’s truly ME…and it created HUGE attraction.

Hopefully this has inspired you to act on things and to get out there and make a couple of ladies really happy by adding value to their lives…instead of taking it…and this is something I would like for you to think about.

Greets,

Rick Dutch.