Hey there, today i want to tell you about how i have my “dates”. As i get A LOT…LIKE …A LOT of guys asking me about “what to do on a date!?” As the best they can come up with is “going out to a movie or having a drink in a cafe” wich is fine…at certain times with certain people, but if you want to make a real impact, if you want to anchor an amazing feeling inside your date whiches is linked to you…you probably want to do something more amazing…something actualy worth remembering.
I once heard “Zan Perrion” say something along these lines “Live each day, as if your going to create an amazing memory” And that is exactly the way of living my life as i am always seeking and making opportunities to create amazing memories…and i have so many already 
So i have this female friend, we have been seeing eachother for some time now and we are realy close when we are together and like eachother alot. Now the fun thing is that i have so many ideas of doing cool and amazing things on dates and i decided it was time to do something special with her, to make her aware of how AMAZING it is to hang out with me 
(i mean, seriously…i am amazing to hang out with).
I live right next to the fantastic city of Rotterdam and there are tons of cool things i can take a girl out to a date but i wanted to make a bit more of an effort out of it, to strengthen our connection even more and “to create an amazing memory with her” and i came up with the following things to do:
I picked her up in the morning, then we drove to the center Rotterdam to a fantastic Hotel! Nothing fancy or classy but what makes it fantastic is that they decorated it in certain styles, like the 1st 2 floors has this “middle eastern style” then the 3rd floor has this “African style” and the 4th floor has an “South American” flavour to it! Then right next to it they have this Restaurant completely in the middle eastern style with foods and dishes which originate from those areas aswel, where logically we would have our dinner that night.
So we checked in, got the key to the room and wen on to the next thing i had planned…a visit to the “Sex Shop” right around the corner…yeah bwoy! We bought a couple toys…and a couple stimulating lubricants…which was a very cool thing to do as by doing that i non verbally promised her…again…a super amazing “physical get together” with this extremely sexy, half Dutch half Brazilian Prince!!!
Then i took her to the Rotterdam Zoo, which is a very big Zoo where i try to go atleast once a year. We had lunch there and had a very nice time together, walking around, experiencing all these different vibes which come with the different areas they built up there…i personaly love it!
After that we drove back to the Hotel and went to the restaurant to have ourselves a snack, we ate a little, drank some, talked for a bit…connected…
Then we went up to our room which we actually entered for the 1st time right then and we were both pleasantly surprised, it looked like something from that movie “The Prince of Persia”. Just try to imagine a room with that middle eastern look all over it, pillows on the floor, courtains draiping down around the king size bed, soft shining lamps with that “oil lamp/genie of the lamp” style, Persian carpets on the floor, it was perfect! (i spared no costs as i took one of the most expencive and biggest rooms available!)
So, we were going to take a nap before a late night dinner as we were going out later that night to a Special Club Night i always receive tickets for. So…yeah…as we went to bed we…obviously…battled wich sides we were going to sleep…i won…HA! So we played around for up to 2 hours, used our newly bought toys and lubes and had an amazing experience there, i can imagine her feeling a bit like “one of the ladies from my harem, choosen for a special night, filled with pleasure, with her Prince”.
After we took a nap, we got ourselves ready and went down for our dinner, which was seriously amazing…and then we went to the club. We arrived before the massive line formed, something i always calculate when going to a certain venue as standing in line for almost up to an hour is not one of the most fun things to do on a date. So we were inside just vefore it filled up, went to a quiet area with our drink and sat down to enjoy eachothers company.
After a while we danced and had fun together, drank some, laughed some, fooled around some…the usual Then, when we got a bit tired we went back to the hotel, went to our night time business and went to sleep…in the morning we bathed together and had an amazing breafast there…Prince of Persia Style! And i took her home and went on my business.
Now THAT…is how i do my thing guys…you wanted to have a couple ideas? Well im sure this might inspire you to go out and actualy create a long lasting amazing memorable experience for the special ppl in your life!
We grew even more close those days we spent together, and we did cool things, something she doesnt do with her other dates when she has them! Like what i did with my friend, ENSURED, that now…when she thinks of me (and she does!) she remembers the amazing experience with me and what do you think that will do to her state? It will cause her to have an amazing boost in her state when she thinks of me!
And that is something YOU can also accomplish!
And i know, ofcourse, there are thos among you “who don’t have the finanial recources” to do something like what i described here, i completely understand! However, in that case, i would like to challenge you to do a couple things:
- Come up with great, creative, memorable, options…which don’t cost you much…or nothing at all.
- Go and find ways to create a (legal) financial income!!! There are MANY ways for you to create a certain amount of income…if you think there is no way…its because your goals are probably impotent! (which basicaly means that you…are…one…lazy…street bum! lol)
Dates dont HAVE to cost a lot of money, you can do tons of amazing things like “Grabbing some old bread and go and feed ducks” or “Make paper signs which have numbers on them from 1 up to 10, then go to the city center, find yourself a place to sit down, and go rate people, holding up the signs when they pass by!” Both you guys will laugh your asses off and have a blast!!!
These are both things which hardly take any effort and they are both things that will create an amazing memory with YOU in it because sure as hell the ppl you take out on dates dont ever do this stuff with others…they get taken to a movie or a drink in a cafe by others! ( BOOORIIINNNGGG)
So be creative, take a bit of effort, and create an amazing, life lasting, incredible memory, for you AND you date!
Have fun!
Rick Dutch
