Hey man, whatsup! I have been thinking on writing about this for a long time now as i think this is of major importance as it shows your level of “Social Intelligence”.
“Your Personal Style”
Have you ever noticed, that, sometimes, you see some one, and you look them up and down realy fast like your scanning them, and then, some of those times you might feel a bit of an awkward feeling creeping up your spine, so you turn around to face the other way as you don’t want to have them in your sight anymore?
But with others…you notice that just the sight of them…gives you this, pleasant, warm, comfortable feeling?
And have you ever noticed how, sometimes, you see a person…and they actually “look” pretty good. They are good looking people…but still you don’t seem to find anything attractive in them…but you don’t know what it is? As, in other occasions, you see this “not so good looking person” walking by…only to find yourself staring at them as they have something that just…magically…attracts you? When going through any of these things…try to notice what they wear? Like, how do they present themselves? Do they look comfortable in the close they are wearing? What do they exhude?
“Hey, i am a socially awkward person since i have no idea what to wear”
or
“Hey, i might not have the features of a Playboy model or look like Brad Pitt…but im sexy as hell and succesful none the less!!!”
Like, check out “Lady Ga Ga” for an example, she might be your idea of “hot” or not, but she certainly dresses like she’s the shit! And personaly, i dont find her that good looking at all! Its just the way she dresses and is comfortable with her beeing a sexual creature which makes her appealing, it makes her hot and higher quality!
Have you ever noticed that you could easely feel more attraction towards a person who is dressed well?
Like for me personally, sometimes, i see this girl or woman walking by with a great sense of fashion, she knows what to wear, what colors suit her best, how to present herself…and it just makes her so attractive! Or when you see a “not so good looking guy” who is dressed to kill and then he just exhudes this “i am a man who’s on top of the world” vibe…and it just makes him look so much more…like a real man! Like a man who actually…GETS LAID!
Now, i know a lot of “sargers” and i have noticed that the people who exhude “quality”, ATTRACT “quality”. Now, i can talk about this for a long time trying to explain how “Social Intelligence” works but i am not going to do that…not in this post anyways…you will just have to open your eyes…and see /find out for yourself…that what i am saying is hardcore reality!
I see it all around me, the people who “dont dress like quality” (with all respect) end up with “less quality” people and let’s not go into the “different people have different tastes conversation here” cause YOU know, just like everybody else, that…YOU are attracted to “high quality” and even though, you might have a boy or girl friend who, i am sure, is realy sweet, nice and “good enough”…secretly…you ARE attracted to some one who dresses better, who exhudes more ”quality” in your reality.
I mean, i see guys out there with no sense of style, walking up to realy stylish high class women…and, seriously,i have ENORMOUS RESPECT FOR THOSE OF YOU WHO ACTUALLY DO SO…however…i see a lot of them crash and burn…over, and over, and over again…only to get laid with a girl who is not realy their girl of choice but are still doing it so they can feel a bit of self worth and “success”.
Now, if you got the feeling that you are beeing “attacked” here, i appologise as it is nothing personal! I am just trying to make you aware of the fact that, a nice haircut, nicer jeans than the ones you are wearing right now, a couple nice looking accecoires (rings, necklace, etc.) cool shirt…and all that, will make you look like a sexier person, a more succesful person, a person of higher quality!
If you want to date “10’s” then dress like a “10″!
And to point something else out aswel, i dont mean that all of you should look like “Brad Pit or a Playboy model”. If you are into the Gothic scene, dress like a world class Goth! It doesnt realy matter what it is that you like to exhude, just make it something only an amazing, successful, sexually attractive person LIKE YOU would wear!
And, please, for your own sake, don’t come up with things like “Yeah, but i dont care what others think of me hen they see me, i know im worth it” or “I am sexually attractive to all high quality suitors, because i used affirmations to make myself believe so!” because you KNOW that when you tell yourself this…your trying to come up with stupid reasons that don’t help you at all! You DO care what others think of you, were hardwired to…and so are YOU!
What do you want “them” to think when they look at you? What is it that you want to send out into the world?
Take a good look at yourself in the mirror, do you look like something YOU yourself would be sexually interested in? Seiously, ask yourself this! If the answer is not a full 100% FUCK YEAHHH!!! Than you probably would like to figure out a way to improve your style.
Some brands of jeans, very intelligently, accentuate your figure, as other, mostly cheaper ones, only purpose are to keep your leggs warm…and they don’t show your amazing looking ass! The same goes for t-shirts or blouses, tops, jackets and shoes…oh lord…shoes are SO important!!! I am talking for myself now, but i know a lot of people agree with me, a good looking person, well dressed…with “wrong shoes” is a HUGE turn off! Its kind off the same as with clothing, as anyone with nice shoes looks so much more attractive!
Take care of your warderobe man! It WILL make the difference!
Dress for Success!
Good luck!
Rick Dutch.
(i mean, seriously…i am amazing to hang out with).
