Hey you! What’s up? Today I wanted to write down this particular experience because I thought it would make a fun “field rapport”. I was going to meet up with a very special lady friend of mine to congratulate her with her birthday. She was in a local café with her friends and a couple of guys, she apparently didn’t know them, and I just decided i was going to go in and out because i wanted to go sleep early for a change.
So when I got there I saw a lot of people that I knew, colleagues and friends and I said hi all over the place. I had a genuinely good time talking to everyone and I even pulled out a magic trick J . About this time I looked around and noticed how much social proof I already had built. When I was talking to someone there were lady’s all around me and when I looked at them…well…the looks on their faces said more than enough
The actual fun started when I started talking to my special lady friend, I saw her standing alone for a moment and thought it would be time to give her a bit of my special attention, yeah baby yeah…after all I was there because of her.
We started talking and having a fun conversation, she had a couple of drinks and was quite “funny” to be around, she smiled all the time which I really liked and she had “this look” on her face…yeah I just love the looks on women’s faces when they had a couple of shots
After a couple of minutes I noticed 1 of the guys checking us out and soon after also his friends. I didn’t pay much attention to it and I just continued on talking and having great fun. The more fun we had the more the guys were looking at us…AND the more they were drinking…LOL. So at a certain time I kinda noticed what they must have been thinking…I just “stole” a girl out of their group and they could see how much fun we had together and they were frustrated by jealousy. They were drinking lots of beer, looking our way with these “looks” on their faces, obviously talking about us and then one of them stood up and walked our way. He whispered something in the ear of my “friend” and walked back to his friends, my lady friend then said to me “lol, he says that he knows exactly what you are doing and that I should watch my back with you” the only thing I could answer was “yeah, you better watch your back with me
”.
Then she told me that earlier on that night, that same guy came up to her and that she had to do some “psychological thing” with him…it was something about “a cube, a ladder, flowers” and when i listend to her saying all this it hit me, as some of you guys, who read “The Game” will also have noticed…and I continued for her “ah, and let me guess…a storm?, and where is that storm located? and what color do the flowers have? Etc. etc.”
I recognized what the guy was doing as he did the visualization test called “The Cube” on her, used to read a person’s personality. Neil Strauss wrote about it in his book “The Game” I think (correct me if I’m wrong). And since then it is something that a lot of “gamers/pua’s” are using in their routine stack to “impress” a woman…by going “hey I can read your personality”.
I told her what he did and kept in mind that the guy could be an aspiring PUA who just read “The Game”. (I gave my lady friend a copy of The Game and she started reading it so she knows what’s going on).
After a while I wanted to go home but wanted to go and have a chat with the guys who were looking my way for about 1,5 hours with an unbelievable look on their face :p (yeah and to have some self amusing fun, lol). I walked over to their table said hi to the guys and wanted to shake their hands…one guy’s jaw dropped open and gave me a look as if I was a well known superstar that just came to say hi to him but the guy who I approached 1st didn’t want to shake my hand and he said “I don’t know you!” (with a drunk voice) I gave him that much and told him he was exactly right, “yeah you don’t know me indeed!” (and keep in mind that I did this with the biggest smile on my face!).
He: Yeah so why would I want to shake your hand?!
Me: Dude…do you have issues with yourself?
He: Mumble mumble…errrrmmm…NO! but I don’t know you so…
Me: Dude, you and your friends are looking at the girl and me for over an hour now, are you angry with yourself that YOUR not sitting there with her?
He: Errmmm, errmmm…(mumbling noises, looks of self pitty on his face)
Then I cut him off, in a dominating way!!! and said:
“Bro listen!, and you guys also! (pointing to the other guys) Next time you go out, you should put a smile on your faces, leave the beer alone and then maybe…maybe…you will have the chance to sit down with a nice looking girl for a talk instead of sitting here being frustrated with your male friends about guys who “steal away” your girls and leave you to go home all alone to play with yourselves instead of with a woman! And if you feel the need…you can always come to me for help! I smiled at them…laughed…pat the guy on the back…and left…with the lady…
You should have seen the looks on their faces! Priceless!!!
You want to know what the moral of this story is?
It is “ok” if your a bit clueless of “what to do”, we are not all naturally good in social interactions etc. I know I wasn’t! But if you are an “Average Frustrated Chump” (as the guys in my story, who have issues with themselves) there is always something you can do about it, just take action to become more attractive and to try to better yourself in any other way! However, if you are an AFC and react this way to guys that out-game you by far…you are just taking a step further backwards! I mean, Don’t hate the player that has better game, just learn from what he does and use it to improve yours!!! (Or hate the game lol).
Good luck and see you soon!
Rick Dutch.
Ps. @ the angry drunk guys of the café: My friends! If you ever read this, my invitation to help you out will always be valid, just contact me, and I will happily coach you to big successes!

The 1st thing I noticed was something “un usual” in her panty’s…what the fuck is that?! I thought to myself…then she told me…”She was pierced!!!”. 







